Hi all you beautiful people,
You know, keeping your mind in check while creating a flourishing business is critical to your success!
Where did I get these radical ideas from? Well, in his very famous emotional intelligence book, an author by the name of Daniel Goleman outlines how to become a true leader in business and in life simply by mastering your emotions. You can check his book out here:
Primal Leadership: Realizing The Power Of Emotional Intelligence
Home business owners can sometimes let their emotions get the better of them and this is detrimental for several reasons.
Emotional intelligence alone will create MASSIVE changes within your business but if you’re allowing your emotions control you then it’s time to stop the pain.
Click on the ‘Play’ icon above and honestly check out what I will expose you to in this emotional intelligence training when it comes to real emotional control and how in all actuality our feelings are based upon the way we react to the challenging events in our businesses and in our lives.
People are naturally driven by their emotions, but when someone lets their emotions effect home business decisions, they can often times experience failure.
I’m now going to hand over to you the exact formula I use to change my emotions and thought patterns at a lightning like speed. It may seem a little cumbersome at first, but anything is. Practicing something new takes time and practice. By the way, I hate that word ‘practice’ because it implies that you’re not good at something. I’d rather say “Go do it.”
Remember, ANY successful person started out this way and that’s why they’re so good at what they do simply due to the fact that they understand that repetition is the mother of all skill. So take in my formula of mastering your emotions while soaking up this emotional intelligence training, use it again and again and you WILL get good at it, I promise. So here’s what it is:
- Identify what the emotion is. Get right down to the core emotion whether it be a feeling of hurt, overwhelm and the like. Really define what the emotion is so you are better prepared for the following action steps.
- Get incredibly curious about what the emotion’s offering you. Sure, this sounds a little weird but have you ever wondered why kids are so darn happy? They’re curious about EVERYTHING and you have to do the same! Most people just react to their emotions and so they’re not in control. You at least will react in total wonder and in turn be ready for the next step and that’s…
- Appreciate the message the feeling is giving to you. Instead of wallowing in that negative emotion, think to yourself “Hey, what else could this mean?” In other words, a lot of your negative emotions are; in fact, a call to action, whatever that action may be. For example, the emotion of being afraid or even nervous is sending you a message that you’d better prepare for something that’s coming up in the near future otherwise it’s going to cost you in some form and so it’s time to take steps to diffuse that…
- Replace that old emotion with a new, empowering one. How do you do that? You DECIDE. Decide in its original Latin root form means ‘to cut off from’ which means you cut off from any other possibility and go for it full tilt man! Decide which emotion you want out of that situation and decide which behavior or procedure is appropriate for that particular situation.
- Finally, take MASSIVE action. Implement your new empowering emotion, behavior and procedure and you’ll come out of that moment a lot better off had you allowed that negative emotion take over based on your old patterns of programming. Not only that, your confidence will increase as a result of knowing that this actually works and it won’t be long before you have full mastery over your emotions.
This will make you a very POWERFUL entrepreneur and you’ll be able to reintegrate yourself time and time again making you unstoppable when it comes to people and situations in your business and in your life!
Whew! I’ve dumped a lot on your brain for now but please hear me out on this. You deserve the best of the best coaching from me and I’m not going to hold back on anything. This stuff works and like I said before, it WILL be like riding a bike for the first time.
But you’re going to get good at this and if you need to go over this information again in this emotional intelligence training to fully crystallize it into your mindset, then by all means…do it. Repetition is the mother of all skill and once you truly master yourself, you’ll be unstoppable.
If you can gain full control over your emotions your prospects and potential partners will find you irresistible because you’ll radiate the right type of confidence and they’ll see you as the person who can teach them to do the same.
Trust me; no one is going to join someone who is just as afraid and unsure of themselves as they are.
People are looking to be led by those who not only are mentors and teachers in the area of marketing and mindset, but also in the area of emotional awareness as well so it might as well be you and that is why mastering this area is so MASSIVELY critical to your success.
If you haven’t already viewed how I teach you about important ways to defuse your emotions while in business mode, then check out what I have to say also in the above video training.
This knowledge will allow you a breath of fresh air, and also allow you to have a clear enough mind to master success with home business as well as other areas in your life whether it be relationships, health or just plain every day routine.
To be in full awareness of your emotional capacities as a human being is value beyond words and it is the remedy for any kind of negative energy that may currently exist. To investigate more, I highly recommend Daniel Goleman’s emotional intelligence book right here:
Primal Leadership: Realizing The Power Of Emotional Intelligence
What I want to know is…what do YOU do to reduce certain negative reactions that occur in your life?
Share your ideas down below with the community and let’s unite together to truly reach out and help each other, not to mention inspire and cultivate the different knowledge and wisdom that we all have inside…
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To Your Emotional Strength…
November 3rd, 2010 at 5:03 pm
Great stuff Vincent! Can tell you’ve studied Tony’s Work!! It’s important for us to continue to reinforce these things into our minds, and to spread the word to others as well! Love what you’re doing man.